Homily for Sunday- July
4, 2010
Jesus has often been portrayed
as a man of sorrows, which indeed He was. It is
doubtful that anyone ever felt pain more acutely,
or grieved more deeply than He did. This, however,
is only a partial picture. With equal truth, he
can also be portrayed as a man of joys. He rejoiced
in the world of nature finding more beauty in
wild flowers than in the wardrobe of a king. He
was a man of sorrows. Yet there is reason to believe
that no one ever got more joy out of life than
He did.
As it was with Him, so it is with the faith that
He founded. Christianity makes for both sorrow
and joy. The reason for this two-fold effect is
not hard to find.
Devotion to Christ produces a deeper and wider
devotion to other people. Our Catholic faith is
not a Jesus and me spirituality. And that enlarged
circle of concern produces an increased liability
to pain. When we truly love others, whatever happens
to them, happens to us if their hearts are broken,
our hearts are broken. If their fortunes fail,
we cannot go our carefree way pretending that
all is well. But this expanded sympathy also multiples
the possibility of joy. The good fortune of those
we love becomes our good fortune. Their gladness
inevitably overflows and floods our lives, too.
A genuine devotion to Christ makes for both sorrow
and joy. But it is first and foremost a way of
joy. Our gospel reading for today brings that
truth into focus. Jesus was putting His disciples
to work. He divided them into teams of two, then
gave them their job descriptions. They were to
heal the sick and proclaim the reign of God. He
told them to expect hard times. They would be
like lambs in the midst of wolves. Their living
conditions would be sparse, and they would encounter
rejection. The whole thing sounded like a prescription
for misery. It was not a happy prospect. But they
made their journey, did their work, and came back
home.
Then comes a surprising report. St. Luke tells
us that they “returned in jubilation”. With every
apparent reason to be miserable, they were instead
overflowing with gladness. That seems very strange,
but it was not an isolated event. Many others
have known the same experience. Men and women
from every walk of life have found joy in circumstances
where misery might have been expected. This historic
truth gets us into the realm of Christianity’s
contribution to happiness. What is it, and how
does it work?
The first contribution is to put happiness in
its proper place. Those disciples, whom Jesus
sent out, were not concerned with making themselves
happy. That was probably the furthest thought
from their minds. If this had been their primary
purpose they would never have gone. Jesus told
them, up front, that they would be overworked,
underpaid, and unappreciated. People, who were
obsessed with thoughts of happiness, would not
have accepted that kind of assignment. They would
have looked for something easier, something more
profitable. And as a result, they would have missed
the greatest joy of their lives. Happiness is
not a goal to be directly pursued. The people
who do that, seldom, if ever, find it.
Most of us are probably familiar with the word,
serendipity. It was coined in 1754, by the English
writer, Sir Horace Walpole. He borrowed it from
a Persian fairy tale called “The Three Princes
of Serendip”. These young men had a knack for
finding something valuable, while searching for
something else. Thus Sir Horace came up with the
word, serendipity. It refers to valuable discoveries
that are made without being sought. Happiness
is serendipity. It is almost always found by people
who are not looking for it.
Christianity has made a major contribution to
that insight. It has removed happiness from the
forefront of life, and put it in the background
where it belongs. Jesus never sought to be happy.
He sought to do the will of God, and happiness
came along. He did not teach His disciples how
to find happiness. He taught them the truth about
life. And when they put the truth into practice,
happiness found them. That is how it works. The
happiest people in the world did not set out with
that goal in mind. In fact, they have seldom bothered
to think about it.
Another contribution of Christianity to happiness
is its concept of God. Jesus told His disciples
to announce the good news that “the reign of God
is at hand”. The implications of that for human
happiness are beyond calculation. It means we
mortals are not alone in an uncaring universe.
We are in the hands of a divine goodness and mercy
and power. It means God is with us in a real and
personal way. And with Him, there is forgiveness
for sin, healing for sorrow, and strength for
living in all conditions. It means history is
the fulfilling of a divine purpose.
I want to consider one other contribution. It
is the possibility of working with God in His
creative and redemptive purpose. This was the
primary factor in the happiness of those returning
disciples.
It is true that happiness is mostly usefulness.
It comes from meeting a need, from lifting a load,
from sharing a sorrow, from playing some part
in God’s redemptive purpose. These sources of
endless delight are at every person’s hand every
day. Yet how often we let their treasures go unclaimed.
Longing to be happy, seeking it in places where
it can never be found, we allow the true sources
of joy to slip through our fingers day after day.
Christianity’s contribution to happiness is not
some hidden secret known only to mystics and saints.
Make a study of really happy people and you will
see it at work. All of them have certain traits
in common. They do not pursue happiness. They
seldom even think about it. More important matters
claim their attention. They make themselves useful
to someone. They pick up some creative work needing
to be done, and lose themselves in the doing of
it. Then happiness, that illusive something of
which everybody dreams, comes along. This is within
reach of everyone, including you and me.
A beauty salon owner was surprised when one of
her regular customers came in to have her hair
styled. She wasn’t scheduled for a cut for another
couple of weeks. She asked if she had some big
plans that evening.
“No,” she said. “I don’t have anything special
going on. I just want to look and feel good tonight.”
So the stylist went to work. She gave the woman
a scalp massage then shampooed and styled her
hair. During their 30 minutes together, the two
talked and joked and laughed. When she had finished,
the woman smiled radiantly and hugged her goodbye.
A few days later the salon owner received a note
from the woman. She thanked her for the wonderful
time she had that afternoon. Her kindness and
the fun they shared had given her hope enough
to check herself into a hospital, seek professional
help for her depression, instead of taking her
own life, as she was contemplating that evening.
“Thank you for being there,” she wrote, “without
knowing that you were.”
The experience shocked the hair dresser. She had
known the woman for three years yet had no inkling
she was in such distress. What if she had been
distracted, upset, or rushed through the appointment?
How many of the ten clients she saw each day were
in similar crisis without her even being aware
of it? She would never know. She vowed from that
point on to give extra care and attention to everyone
she saw and to do her best to make his or her
day. The experience not only changed the woman’s
life but the salon owner’s perspective, as well.
As Christ sends forth the seventy-two in today’s
gospel, he sends all of us - salon owners and
police officers, contractors and accountants,
bishops, priests, deacons, religious sisters and
professionals, grandparents, parents and children
- to proclaim God’s peace. A peace that enables
us to bring forth the good within others; a peace
that is returned to us in extending the blessing
of that peace to others.
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